Sins on hurting people un-intentionally

st0necol · Post by **st0necol** » Mon Mar 17, 2008 8:08 pm

We've often noticed in our familes or in our community

Sometimes when they're (our elders) doing wrong and when we stop them that it's wrong. Sometimes they get hurt badly and may give baddua also or fight. Also our fellow age group peoples. Like if someone stops others from doing back-biting or telling him about the behavior of sitting into Jamatkhana. Is it a sin then? will the baddua of that person will affect us? We told what we had to say. And also we should tell them politely, what if still they find it offensive? then will it be a sin over us of hurting them ?

And also happens on other occasions where we're not intending to hurt the person but he/she gets hurt by our those actions or words. Is it also a sin then? Like we wanted to do something good but unfortunately it went bad and it hurt them.

kmaherali · Post by **kmaherali** » Tue Mar 18, 2008 2:51 pm

Our traditions inform us how to behave. If a person especially an elderly one, does not obey the Pir, he is not likely to obey you!

In that case, it is better to be quite and try to be an example to others through our actions.

Mehboob1986 · Post by **Mehboob1986** » Sat Mar 22, 2008 6:57 pm

I don't think that the baddua will affect you if you stop someone from doing the wrong thing and he gets hurt.

The reason I say this.. Our PIRS, Prophets, Saints and Dai they all preached and many people accused them for many things and cursed them sometimes (if I'm not wrong) it didn't affect them.

And God tells us to Stop the wrong doing from actions or words (there is a Hadis similar to this) then won't HE protect us when someone cursed us during that procedure? Ofcourse HE will