I agree this forum should not be used for dating svc. But a meaningful discussion/s should be welcomed. A lot of interest has been shown on this topic all i can say is that there are a lot of resources on the web for those who are struggling to come to terms with their faith and circumstances in their lives. I personally strongly suggest seeing a therapist or a counsellor...and talk to your friends.
Thanks to the moderators for inclusion of this topic..I know a few who have benefited fromt eh discussion..